I overall just don't understand why friendship must involved physical contact. What contact?

I am not married and my BF isn't interested in other women but I would have a problem if he sat there with ladies having physical contacts like holding hands and touching? Or like what? That would be just as bad as having sex. And I wouldn't care if that woman did it because she thought he needed comfort. I would be grossed out by the whole thing and it would be the end of it. Beyond red flag.

That's why I just do not get this whole physical closeness thing. If these men are commuted to others they are just cheaters. But then again maybe I misunderstand physical contact comment. What does it imply? What type of closeness?

I just have to add that there is nothing wrong in wanting to comfort others. You might choose a career that requires that or would you consider something like volunteer in places such hospice or shelter or hospital? You'll be comforting those in need and putting them first at the same time not jeopardizing your values.

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