I've recently been professed love by someone that yes, I'm sort of close to due to years of knowing him. Last time I checked, 1) he's still legally married. 2) has another woman living with him.

He's as emotionally unavailable as it comes. Just because there's that closeness doesn't mean that I need to do anything more than I'm doing. Which is carrying on with my life. Pursuing other options, encouraging myself to look at what gravitates unavailable persons to me.

So, yes, I understand full well how these situations happen. Yet, my moral code says take my own personal space and I'll be fine.