i went through alot of treatment for borderline - or more for it that any of my other disorders before i quit. sorry to report that the cure didn't take. what is referred to as 'splitting' still makes the most sense to me. as for the rest, i'm not much bothered by it because i don't do relationships beyond casual acquaintances anymore. in effect, i've embraced my schizoid tendencies in order to neutralize the angst borderline was causing me. of course, being schiz carries it's own set of problems, but they're personal rather than interpersonal, and thus easier for me to deal with.

not exactly a shining post of joyful enlightenment. my condolences, such as they are and for what they're worth.