Thanks so much everyone! I truly appreciate your support and love.

I wasn't able to have the conversation I hoped I would with her, but we did talk some this evening. I was very calm and spoke softly with much love and concern in my voice. She was ticked at me, of course, but after about 10 minutes of me repeating that I have a valid reason to be concerned and that I loved her and Larz, she finally calmed down and spoke with me rationally.

I did not threaten anything at this point. She's a smart girl, she knows that I am watching and that I am not stupid. She will think about what I have said and will make her decisions from there. I have told her before (a few years ago) that if she didn't get her act together, I would get custody of my grandson. So she knows I will do it if I feel I have to.

Thanks once again everyone....I don't think I would be able to get through all this as calmly as I have been without your support.

Please know too, I am not closing my eyes to her behavior. I am giving her the chance to redeem herself while keeping a close eye on the situation. I will not allow my grandson to be harmed further (emotionally). She knows that



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