That's it in a nutshell. People without experience are ignorant. If it's a subject I know something about I don't pay those kinds of people any mind. If I find I do get angry I look in myself to see what button of mine they are pushing with their ignorance. Usually I am uncertain about myself and how I feel about me which is the problem. Other people shouldn't have to boost your feelings about yourself and if you "really" struggle/have OCD or whatever. You either know you are working hard to help yourself or you maybe are not sure and need the reminder to identify areas where you could do better.