Justice, you truly ARE an inspiration! There are some that might say that love for yourself has to come first, but it's not always true. The love you have for your dad played a big role, I'm sure, and rang a bell in your head about yourself.
Your last sentence is also key; "I'm not saying it's easy, just possible!"
Thanks again for sharing!
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.