The more thought I have given this the more I have realized that I'm going to need to be much more mindful of the room I'm in, and when it comes to ES if I'm not in a spot of either giving or needing support I will move to another room, even if no one is there. Thankfully that's not always the case, though.
It seems this is the point of having different rooms, and it's up to us to be more mindful of what we're really in each room for. I agree it seems to defeat the purpose to go into any room if we're the only one there, but thankfully it's been my experience, that that's not usually the case for very long cause others tend to come if someone is alone in a room.
So suffice all this to say, I have come to recognize if I'm up for just some lighthearted chit chat then coffeehouse or adult is the place to be, and if lending support or needing it is the case ES is the place to be. Personally I plan to practice more mindfulness regarding which room I'm in!!!
Thanks for bringing this to our attention, Mountainbard!!!
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Don't mistake my silence for ignorance;
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and most of all,
don't mistake my kindness for weakness.
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