Sorry...is there more information here? What was the initial conversation about? What is the context (are you coworkers, classmates, go to the same church?)

I've felt that people were doing that to me before as well when, in reality, they were having a pretty bad day or even week and not thinking about me at all (I tend to make everything about me...it's always ruari.com ) A coworker of mine whom I've known for 10 years, outside of the job, has had some personal issues lately. There have been a few days when she was a total B to me...but it had nothing to do with me (still wasn't right, but it wasn't about me at all). I know it's hard to read people, but there is always the possibility that they weren't, actually, recoiling from you. Or maybe they just didn't want to talk. Doesn't mean they don't like you or didn't enjoy your talk. I do that sometimes. Some people don't understand that I'm a bit introverted and withdraw a little sometimes, but most do and just take it in stride that, sometimes, I'm just not as chatty as I am at other times.