i was going to reply in the other thread but it was closed so ill do it here. People who say they are leaving, that is how they feel at the time in many cases. They are upset or disgusted, or hurt or whatever but that is how they feel when they type it, its what they need to get out at that time . After thinking about it, or someone talks to them, or things change they may change their minds,or maybe they dont feel wanted and when people show they care they change their minds. If it annoys you, dont read it. I dont really see what the big deal is, its the nature of the beast.......Lack of compassion annoys me more.