My daughter has had all kinds of problems all of her life, and my son mentioned that maybe she is bipolar. After reading some on it, she really fits almost all catagories. Why didn't we see this before. She is 41 years old, and going to college, doing well, but really has problems getting along with people. If everything goes her way, o.k., but watch out if you cross her. She has really messed up her own oldest son, who will not talk to her right now at all. He is 20. Then, the two stepsons are really messed up, and they have a 6 year old now, who is very smart, but becoming a bundle of nerves because of her agitation. I see another troubled grandchild coming along if she doesn't get under control. She gets angry with anyone at the drop of a hat. At any given time, she can be angry with her mother in law, brother in law, her kids, me, her Dad, her husband, etc. Money has always been an issue, but she has never held down a job long enough to really help out. Wants money from us, but we are not going to give it this time. She is very angry with us because the 20 year old grandson came to visit us last week. We had him here in our home more than 1/3 of his life, and bought most of his school clothing, coats, shoes, boots, and school supplies throughout his school years. She is angry with her husband right now also, because she wants a new car, she wants to move and sell their home, and live closer to us, but hubby would be so far from his job, a long way to drive, and only one income right now. He is doing the best he can, and we often wonder why he doesn't just give up and tell her to leave. She really can make all of us miserable at the same time. Help!!