we just can't pretend to understand how another person is feeling even if we share similar problems.........and we can't teach others new ways to handle these emotions........the beauty of pc is the freedom to say how we feel when we are feeling it.........pretty much every issue is going to trigger someone.....its painful when anyone says they are leaving because we truly are family here but lets try to look past the words and give that individual what they need at the moment........if you know that its going to trigger you.please don't read it.........there are others here that are able to handle these situations.......