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to start , i have said i was leaving.... and i came back after 2 days......... is that wrong, should i of stayed away for good....... (i know some will say yes) .
when i decided to leave i was finding that some issues that were stating here on pc , were getting to me. (bullying isnt nice)
yes, i was convinced that i wasnt going to return, but after a long talk with a super great friend here, i stayed.... ... please dont get me wrong , i felt like a idiot when i started typing again..... .
but after reading the other thread and now this one , im angry that when people are that scared , confused or upset, that they feel the only way out is to leave,. ........ the support ends.... (i dont get it)
im guessing why these threads started ............. and if im right , that is bullying... (its not nice when someone you thought was your friend turns on you , i know ive been there)
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<font color="#000088">I certainly hope this thread wasn't started because of you taking a break! There is nothing wrong with what you did!!!!! You felt hurt, you took some time off, thought about it, got some advice from a friend, and felt as though you could come back. And there is nothing wrong with that. I think you did the right thing by coming back. But I understand how you feel after reading what is being said here. So atleast know that there is someone here that understands how YOU feel about this! And I don't think you were in the wrong! I'm glad you came back!((((((((((therealme))))))))))
See what this thread has done to a very sweet and caring member, that just was upset, and needed time! Now it's being taken personally by her, and I wonder how many others that just needed a break, is taking this personally?
I know some do it for attention, but what about the others that didn't do it for attention, are you thinking about their feelings right now????? </font>