just because freud said something that does not make it untrue. we still believe many things to be true that go back 100 years. einstein, anyone?

how do we know if anyone is insecure?

i am coming against my own narcissism in reading these posts... anything academic gets me going like that, part of why i left academia.

which, by the way, has nothing to do with not giving a ****. apathy is easy! i wouldnt get worked up if i didnt give a ****.

but we could just go on listing and judging all the people we define as narcissists and describe how horrible they were and how they could not possibly be insecure... point your finger at someone and there are three fingers pointing back at you.