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See what this thread has done to a very sweet and caring member, that just was upset, and needed time! Now it's being taken personally by her, and I wonder how many others that just needed a break, is taking this personally?

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THIS thread was not started as a "bash so and so" thread. Not for leaving, not for threatening to leave, not for anything. THIS THIS thread was begun as a way to help some of us understand WHY people say that they are leaving. I said that before, on page two. Perhaps, if people UNDERSTAND why people threaten to leave, we can begin to work together and communicate with one another, instead of this infernal , "I'm leaving, no I was leaving, no I'm leaving first" stuff that is going on. To the people here who actually shared the reasons they wanted to leave, THANK YOU. You grasped the concept of the thread.

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Gracey,

We as individuals do not have to explain why we do the things we do. If it is a request of yourself to have someone to explain why they want to leave I feel your are incorrect in your analysis.

Members here come and go that is the nature of these types of sites and we just need to understand and have the compassion to allow them to deal with whatever they are dealing with on what terms they can deal with it .

Now this thread in my opnion has really gotten off base with the original premise or intent.

We are here to support not to criticize Gracey is entitled to her views and opinions .. Thats what we call freedom of speech . Gracey didnt ask for people to be hurt people allowed themselves to be hurt by this post. We can only be offended by the things that WE allow to offend us

Tymber