I have the same problem. I apologize to everyone whether or not it is my fault or theirs. My T is working with me on it - I told him about one time I apoligized to someone and he could not believe it - he said it was their place to apologize to me - I did nothing wrong and they were rude to me. I know I have a self-image and self-esteem problem - goes with the territory of anxiety and depression and abuse, I guess. Maybe someday I can stop apologizing but right now, it is still ingrained in me that anything that goes wrong - regardless of who does it - is my fault.