Can you describe situations where you recognize his pathological behaviour?

How are you and his father as parents? Just out of curiosity too.

I didn't have strict parents, but I remember feeling pressured to be independent and to never fail, as both of them worked full-time and I didn't want to be a nuisance. I also wasn't a planned child and I know, even if they don't blame me for it, that messed up with their lives a bit.