In my opinion, I would rather think that there is something wrong with people who don’t get along with me than to think that there is something wrong with me. The reason to that is if I think it is other’s fault, there is nothing gonna happen to them anyway. But if I blame myself surely there is something bad that is gonna happen with me (you know what I mean). And it is not naturally hypocritical to say or even think you should respect other’s opinions, it is called trying to be logic.