no offense to anyone but No one was pointed out.. no one said Such and Such why did u say that you were leaving and then stayed...... i dont understand how ppl r taking so much offense to this post.... gracey just asked a question.. doesnt she have that right? IMO in the process of trying to heal instead of running away from whats bothering u... u should try to comfront and fix the problem.... in the long run ud prob feel much better after doing so then running away or leaving....