I am certainly not a short sighted person. My current partner has a disability. It doesn't bother me a bit. Life isn't easy for him. He pushed through though and has college degree, lots of debt due to that but he has professional job he loves, and determination. Neither of us is looking to be supported or support someone. We want to be equal. Not just materially speaking but in every sense. That's how I taught my daughter. She is married to her equal. But as previous poster said others don't have to feel the same

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