tell me something guys- i don`t understand- WHY IN THE WORLD do you make up all the "leaving here" issue? what is it good for?

seriously, i am sorry if i sound judgmental to you or insolting-it`s just that i can`t really get the concept behind it:

see, i leave a site becasue it DOESN`T INTEREST me any more. i have forums where i still have an account but don`t feel like coming there.

the things just HAPPENED BY ITSELF!
i don`t make a goodbye post saying "hey guys i am leaving here bey bye sorry hope you all understand"
it sounds more like you are FORCED TO LEAVE than you want to!
and here on the internet, i think that we all have the freedom to choose. we don`t work here or something. (except for the mods maybe)...so...that`s what i want to say.

it seems to me that members who post "i am leaving PC" don`t really want to leave PC, they want more attensions.

-and -please DON`T get me wrong- I DON`T SAY THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG with wanting attention! it`s o.k!
just the whole point of "leaving here" seems to me not exacly there

so really NO OFFENSE to all our "leaving" members...