Was your family of origin unavailable emotionally hence attraction to a unavailable men?

If you don't understand the concept of romantic love, then how do you say you are " in love" with someone. You don't say you are in love with your mother or sister? Or in love with your female friend? You are only saying it about male friend? So you must feel the difference how you feel, no? If it was all the same for you then you would not call it "in love. "
Also reading your posts about these men who either didn't love you back( as you said ) or only wanted sex of were committed to others etc

I see a lot of emotional intensity that no one ever posts about friends. It sounds very much as emotional attachment to potential romantic partners or people you want to be romantic with.

I have never seen anyone expressing that kind of intensity about just friends. You might not want or need sex but there clearly is a need for romantic encounter with a man. You mention things like "he is the first man who kissed me" etc no way that s how people talk about friends

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