Beth, don't beat yourself up over it, Hon. If you haven't figured it out yet, I like to deal with this kind of thing on my own. Most of the time, just getting it out there helps a whole lot.
The day is over and I'm tackling other problems now.

I may post about it just to rant. If I do, it will be in Relarionships.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.