Hi,

I have a step daughter who is 3 years old and her mum will not allow my husband to see her, the last time he was allowed was January this year,
since they split up she has twisted this poor little girls mind all day everyday telling her that daddy doesn't love you, daddy doesn't want to see you, he does this, and that, and is a very bad man,
this is far from the truth he misses his little girl everyday and would do anything to see her,
at the beginning of there break up his ex would let him see his daughter one day then not let him the next, this went on and on for months so when she done this in January he said that's the last time she's going to do that, as is not fair on his little girl, as it is messing her head up,
we have talked and he has said that he will wait until she is older and let her make her own mind up if she wants to see him or not, we have all the evidence on his ex to show what she has been like and the things she has said and done, my concern is that in the time he is not in his daughters life she is going to listen to all the lies her mum says about him and will not want to know him, does anyone know what age she has to be for her to have her own say in court (in the uk) not his ex saying what will or will not happen with his little girl,
it's killing him inside not being in her life and seeing her growing up, this is all because his ex is not happy that she let him go and wants him back still she always has even her ex boyfriends (since her split with my husband) have told me she was only with them to make my husband jealous and go back to her when she knows there is no way in hell he would ever go back to her,
all he wants is to see his little girl grow up and be happy not having her little head messed up by her mum everyday.

I hope someone can give me some advice on this.