Just last night, me and my Husband talked about the upcoming session. We talked about what we hope to get from the sessions and our fears. He is anxious to just get started and see if the counseling can help. I'm anxious at the thought of, being attacked or singled out during the session.

I said to him, "We are a team and our own family unit. I need to hear and know that if sides have to be taken, you will chose your wife's!" He was surprised and answered, "What makes you think I would not choose your side?" I think sometimes, I just need a verbal confirmation that we are on the same page. I also mentioned to him, if I feel attacked, I will announce it and may walk out the room...depending on the situation. He was okay with this.

Im feeling more reassured about us and our stance together as we go into our first session. My Husband also felt reassured that I was approaching this so seriously.

Thank you for all the support and comments. You have made me feel so supported and heard! Have a wonderful Halloween Weekend and I will update later next week.