Yep it's tough, and all I read about this particular family dysfunction is that in most cases the only cure is to walk away....it's very sad. I am a little in awe of your will and strength to follow through. I often cave because I have quite an isolated life as it is.....may I ask if you ever regretted how you handled it, esp now they are gone. That plays on my mind a lot, as my parents are quite old now

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