A previous t had pretty strict boundaries and then, after seeing me for over a year and I guess getting to know me better, she loosened things up for me. She gave me her cell and home numbers and told me to use them whenever I wanted. I never did though; always called her office number and left a message. She was more relaxed with touch, but I was still pretty uptight about it. She started sharing more of her own life. At some point, she got a lot more relaxed on time and would often go over 30 minutes or more with me. I found out she was not scheduling anyone right after me just in case I needed the extra time. (she didn't charge me for the extra time either) I didn't like that though, felt guilty, so I started watching the clock myself and made sure I left after my 50 minutes. So anyway, ever though she loosened them a lot, I just continued on the same way as always. I like good strong boundaries.