I think my T's boundaries have loosened over time just because of the natural progression of the relationship. I know he does things with me that he doesn't do with other clients and I'm sure he does things with other clients he doesn't do with me. He said I was the first client he let drink alcohol in his office. Admittedly not one of my finer moments, but I think he handled it really well. He says he hugs some clients, but not everyone.