I hear what everyone is saying but why is that the case just with me and not everyone else? The culture at my job isn't that way. People attend each other's weddings, baby showers, birthdays, they go on vacation together, some are even roommates. It's just not the culture. I understand that it's that way in the majority of work settings as it was when I worked in retail and banking. This is the explanation I've fallen back on for quite some time, and it worked for a while. But it doesn't hold up when I can clearly see that, in my environment, it really is just me?