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Old Oct 31, 2015, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I became friends (in real life - not facebook) with the first therapist I ever saw - right after stopping therapy. It was not a big deal, I was not confused nor did I try to use her as a therapist after we became friends and shared a hobby. We saw each other a couple of times a month. It really does not have to be all that complicated or unbalanced. We were not confused about the change and nothing horrible happened. It continued for several years (about 10 I think) until she moved across the country. We still write from time to time. I don't understand why more people don't accept that there are all sorts of ways to be and what might not work with some can work just fine with others.
May I ask how you transition from therapist and patient to friends?
Like, were there any akward moments when you were confused as to how you had to address her? Whose idea was it at first to become friends?
Sorry if I'm a bit curious but it's a fascinating situation.