I think it's important to recognize the difference between a woman (or man) who wants a partner who is able to support themselves-- and someone who wants to be supported by their partner. I want someone who has their own place and a good job because I don't want a partner who has to rely on me for money. I support myself and expect my partner to do the same. I absolutely do not want someone for their money-- I just don't want someone who will be dependent on me. No island necessary; just someone who can pay their own living expenses.