i am not a virgin to perhaps i should not be replying...

i do find it odd that people wait for the ideal person or relationship or whatever. i am not saying dont wait, but if you want to and you havent because you want the perfect moment...

i dont think it is ever perfect. it may not even feel good. likely it will be awkward, no matter who you are with. so if waiting is associated with so much anxiety... i know of people who think that sparks will fly and it will be amazing. they are always disappointed. you wont be ruined if you are not in the perfect situation.

i think that most metaphors for losing virginity are absurd. losing, itself... we dont lost any part of ourselves. we arent giving any part of ourselves away.... this idea that we are giving something up screws up a lot of girls, i think.

Give Me Sex Jesus - Top Documentary Films
interesting doc, balanced...

i realize no one mentioned religion but it applies in other ways to the process of waiting.