I feel your pain too about impulse control over money. I'm bugging my husband about getting a brand new car...that I really don't need...yet

Pink, phone calls with a T are so hit or miss. It is not face to face so you will naturally analyze any sound you hear.

I remember one time I was on the phone with my T and we were talking about something my dad did that made me go nuts and hastily request my records from T...remember that post?

Anyway, at one point it sounded like he threw his pen down on the desk and he said something about needing to distance myself from dad a little bit and at first I thought 'aw he's mad for me'...

then later my negative self started thinking...or he threw the pen because he's mad at me...is he mad at me...oh no...he's mad at me.

Look for the positive in the call. He does care and if you have misinterpreted him in the past then that could be so now...

Hugs!