Congrats on your graduation first off! That's a huge accomplishment especially when you have MI to deal with. When it comes to work relationships, I've always felt like they were friendly to me, but couldn't care less outside of work because I wasn't married like them. I didn't have kids like they do. So our interests were just different.

However for them to tell you that they will be there and not show up is kinda crappy. I can't imagine how bad that made you feel. In my opinion, I'd stop trying after that and keep it to a at work only basis.

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