I understand what you are saying. She throws a fit, and everyone jumps to calm the lion. I am guilty! This year, school is going to start without Nan and Papaw buying school clothes for the youngest, and supplies. I have already decided that with hubbys help. We have worked hard all our lives, sometimes two jobs, and it is our turn. We are downsizing our small farm, and selling off things that make us extra work. We are going on a short vacation with my sister and her husband the week school starts, and that will be just what we need. Daughter is getting very good grades in college right now, and there is no reason she can't work part time, at least. Thank You for your input. It puts the mind to thinking better, and more clearly. If you have more input, I am happy to get it.