here today,

There are endless posts that go like this;
I know my parents love me--------------------------then go onto describe a desperately dysfuntional childhood than has caused deep damage.

WTF!

But if people never love anything that can't love you back? That's how infants are, they can't love their parents back (at least not when they are first born) and we love them anyway, hopefully. Even imperfect mothers like me.

Babies can love you back tho. Babies have the capacity to love you back.

A narcissist will never love you because they are wired differently.

Little or no activity in the Admygdala (IMO)
'The amygdala is responsible for the perception of emotions such as anger, fear, and sadness, as well as the controlling of aggression. The amygdala helps to store memories of events and emotions '

Love a narcissist/psycopath (even if its your mother) and on your on a loser, you ain't never gonna win.
What will happen is that you are drained, they are feeders. They feed on you, emotional vampires. You are used, dumped on, blamed, lied about, shamed, compared to others. 'If only. If only you were as clever/pretty/popular as your sister/brother/cousin. You spend your life on a guilt trip.

You are Never Good Enough.