I'm glad you're staying AngstyLady... and just fyi, if you've got a post that you feel is compromising your identity, you can message the moderators and ask them to delete it for you. It's probably not good to get in the habit of doing that all the time, but for the weird one-off post, they seem to be willing to do it. (I had to do that recently, I used the "report" button on the post to ask them to delete it).