We've been in cousiling together talking in marriage cousiling... about how we both feel because of our hard situation with our special needs child.

Not to say that I'm perfect... not at all... but my special therapist is amazed by the way I understand our son. I think it has to do with me myself having aspergers and sort of know the way he's thinking in.

I try to see to it that hubby doesn't feel small not being able to handle our son in the same way as I can. But... the fact is also that he's better than me when it comes to handle our daughter.