{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Kimberly}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. If I was you, I wouldn't deal with the violent person at all! Don't know if she would listen if you told her you wanted to talk to someone else or not, but if hanging up and calling later works, then that's what I'd do. Tell that personality to get help or you're going to keep your distance. Talking to her husband is a great idea. He's her husband. He needs to deal with her because she's his responsibility, not yours.

Hun, I'm always here for you if you need to unload. Don't know much about DID but I can sure lend you my cushy shoulder. You know I care about you.

Please take care of YOU.