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Old Nov 03, 2015, 10:44 AM
popuri88 popuri88 is offline
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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert View Post
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My friend is older than me. She's in her early 50's. She really is a nice person, but I think that she may think that fat people are a certain way, and certainly not attractive apparently. Ironically she thinks that I'm pretty. I agree with you, it is shallow and immature.
I'm a petite and when I was super skinny I was put down by older people (both male and female). Not that all older people are the same, but I've heard "mean" comments on my looks by people who were born and raised under different, older, thinking patterns and either didn't care to educate themselves out of such limited thinking or were being mean because my looks somehow offended the way they saw the world.

I wonder if, in their mind, they were like "Oh boy, I bet Popuri didn't notice she is X and Y, I'd better let her know she won't get away with that in this world", or something.