me myself am married after several relationships where i was abused and treated badly. i am married for 20 years now, love it and am disabled myself which my husband knew of before we married and had my own baggage like a son out of wedlock where i was engaged to his father. i had to fight for custody which i won thank god. i'm just saying to get the info you need too about the person you like and see if they would still agree to accept you. love is blind too. good luck