Arguing is only normal if you have something to actually argue about.


Picking fights is not normal behavior, its unhealthy, so I would not be complaining about a husband that doesn't pick a fight, because THAT'S just not normal or good.


Arguing can be good as it teaches couples how to "fight fair", but like I mentioned above, if there's no reason to fight, why look for a reason????????


Stop looking for signs that your marriage is abnormal, there's no such thing as normal, people are all different and relationship dynamics differ too depending on the parties involved.


My ex and I argued alot, we were both very volatile people, yet my bf and I never argue, we just disagree and discuss, he brings out the calm in me. I'm certainly not complaining, drama is overrated, pointless and exhausting, calm is awesome!!!!


By the amount of times you've posted about this topic it seems you are extremely preoccupied with needing to argue with your husband....


I think you need to focus on why instead of trying to start arguments or spending your days wishing he would start one.


Be careful what you wish for, you just may get it.


Then you'll be posting about how miserable your marriage is and how you two don't get along at all.


Best to focus your energy on being happy and thankful that you have a happy marriage.


Too many people don't have that luxury, just read through this board....