To put it bluntly, that is a really shyt plan.


You can't live on love and fresh air, you can't guarantee her dad would give her a house, and if he did, how would you finance it? You still need to pay for food and utilities, etc... What if he's thinking, she has a husband now to take care of her, and says she needs to move out? Like has he actually said he would give her a house once she has a husband????


Your idea of an income and some stability first is a good plan, its smart and mature.


Furthermore, getting married because somebody will put up with you is a really depressing reason to get married and marriage is supposed to be a joyful occasion.