I been seeing this man who has a 4 year child. At first I was not aware of this. But when he told me I was kind of turned off since I do not picture myself with a partner who is already a parent. I continued to see him and we have been dating for about 4-5 months now. His child and the child's mother have not gotten in the way. I rarely see the child and I have never met the mother. Even so it still bothers me that he has child because my parents would not approve and I would like for my first child to be a new experience for both me and my future partner. I really like this man, enough to continue spending time with him but I don't know if I should end it. I been thinking about how our relationship would be in the long run and the fact he has a kid and involved with the kids mother makes me really uncomfortable. I know they still have problems and since he obviously has to talk to her for his child it makes me jealous and I feel as if I'll always be his second woman. I have never dated a single dad so I don't know how to go about this.

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