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Originally Posted by Rose76
Her dad is probably not going to "give her the house." Where does she think he is going to go? And how us she going to just "get a car." It sounds like you are more sensible than she is.
It would be an achievement, if you could find a job. That's a good goal. But you would need to be in that job for at least a year before you would have any business taking on the responsibilities of a wife and child. I think your instinct that her plan is not a sound idea is a good one. Listen to your gut.
Would her father possibly be interested in you moving in to his house with him still there? That might be an option to explore, depending on how long and how strong your relatuonship with this young woman has been.
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I think her family is rich and she's privileged. Her dad owns three houses and masses of land. Right now, her dad is in Brazil. She says that her father promised
to give her the present house if she gets married.
When a came to visit her about a week ago, her mom lended me a car, a new addition Chrysler. I'm continuing to use the car... Like wow.
When I met her, I was applying for ssi. Haven't heard anything from ssi yet. If I get approved, I was planning on getting an apartment somewhere away from my hometown and helping my family. But, if I decide to marry her at anytime, I won't be able to help my family unless I have a better income than that of ssi. If I get disapproved, I won't be able to help my family or my relationship.