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Old Nov 04, 2015, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted by kamly234 View Post
Hi all! One of my friends is seriously considering undergoing a sex reassignment surgery, but she is bit afraid of the argument that changing sex is morally wrong. I'm completely against that argument and I'm trying my best to support her, to make her feel confident. I have already talked with her surgeon about her worries. I would like to know if any of you have had an ftm surgery, also your good experience if any so that I could share it with her. I read few blogs explaining tips to speedy recovery for a transgender cosmetic surgery and those were really useful. Do you have anymore tips to share?
your friends treatment provider will be explaining all that to her as it pertains to her situation, religion, culture and locations laws.

in my location and culture it is neither illegal nor morally wrong.

tips again she will need to follow what ever her own treatment providers tell her to do. she will get a full briefing and information for before, during and after care from her own treatment providers.

tips for you, just accept her\him for who ever she\he is and accept that this is something that she \he is doing for their own mental and physical health\ and situation. it is no reflection on you and your choices, morals unless you choose to make it so since its not happening to you.