My bf has two kids from his ex wife. She definitely got in the way. He didn't introduce me to his kids till about a year into it and I was ok with that. When you're dating someone with kids, you have to be prepared to come 2nd on his list. It gets a bit frustrating at times because I'm not used to it but I'm hanging in there. The kids like me so that helps. It's a lot to handle at times. It sounds like you aren't 100% about this man. Be careful not to lead him on. Just be honest with yourself and really ask if this is what you want.

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