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Old Nov 04, 2015, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted by BoulderOnMyShoulder View Post

I asked him what is next for me, what can I do now? I said that if I have these problems with communicating and boundaries and being accusatory, then what can he do to help me not be that way? He mirrored it back to me in a very snotty way, "What you are asking is, 'you think I'm borderline, so now what are you going to do about it?'" when I genuinely was asking him what I could do to improve how I interact with people. I clearly said, what can you do to help me, he took it as me saying "Fix me". He doesn't actually have an answer for me; I am supposed to just keep coming and doing the stream-of-consciousness talking that he encourages.
This guy is a straight shooter - i can hear it in him but i probably cant hear it from my t or pdoc.

I thought your answer to the bolded part was gonna be something like, what kind of response would he find different / acceptable? Not just him, but the rest of the world, since he apparently speaks for the rest of the world! I hate when they have an answer, but they wont give you a freakin example. Cuz hes not exactly a shining example himself. You couldnt get away with telling somebody they are borderline, go take a class!!
Thanks for this!
BoulderOnMyShoulder, SkyscraperMeow