My fiancé wants me to dress more sexy but I feel so guilty when I am out in public and I am wearing something that shows a little more skin and a guy starts cat calling, staring, or making comments. I feel like I am doing something wrong like I did something to make a guy do that. I want to be comfortable in my own skin but at the same I want to make my fiancé happy. With the media telling girls and young woman that it is our job to guard a man's thoughts and by wearing sext clothes we are causing them to have uncontrable sexual thoughts I feel bad being less than covered.