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Originally Posted by CopperStar
There is no reason for your husband to discuss your care with your pdoc without you. In my opinion that is just bound to breed paranoia and hinder the stability process, not help it, and it's completely unnecessary. If your husband believes you are lacking self-awareness, he can go with you to your appointments as you offered to provide input and support. I think your feelings on the matter are completely reasonable.
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Thank you so much for your input. I just called my mom and maybe was a little more accusitory than I needed to be and asked her why she thought my husband needed to talk to my doctor with out me. She got more than defensive, she got angry. She told me that everything they want to do is to help me and that if I have something better to do than I should do it because it's working out so well for me. She said they were just going to stay out of my treatment and betterment completely from this point forward.
I explained that I know they want what's best for me I just don't understand always why they go about things the way they do. She didn't back down from her position but she did tell me that she is going through so much (she is) and she is human and can't be expected not to crack (get angry) at all.
I feel terrible for upsetting her...but I just don't get it.