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Originally Posted by SkyscraperMeow
I think you know exactly what to do about this guy. I think the only thing that's stopping you is the fact that there's an attachment after four years. If he'd pulled this **** 4 weeks into therapy, you'd be out of there so fast his hat would spin on his head like a cartoon.
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Yep. You're exactly right. I'm afraid of the empty feeling I know I'll have from not having him in my life after 4 years of very intense attachment--but honestly the emptiness is better for me than the pain I am feeling now with someone who is convinced that I am majorly messed up and using that against me in everything I say and do anymore.